Restoring a couple’s duet of love and lust requires conscious, creative action. Here are four conductor’s moves to bring both melodies back into alignment.
You know too much. You’ve seen them pluck nose hairs, debate which trash bag to buy, and sigh over spreadsheets. Familiarity isn't the enemy—over-familiarity is. When mystery evaporates, so does lust. Lust requires a sliver of distance, a piece of your partner that remains deliciously unknown. A Couple-s Duet of Love Lust
Love in a long-term couple is the sustained note. It is the bass line that holds everything together. It manifests as: Restoring a couple’s duet of love and lust
When love is the only melody, the relationship becomes a nursing home before its time. It is safe, but it is not alive. When love is the only melody, the relationship