You can’t exist without your group. Your relationships are vetted by the geng. If your partner doesn't get the geng's approval, the relationship is doomed. Your POV is always from the kedai mamak table or the back of the classroom, whispering, "Eh, tengok tu. Mereka gaduh lagi."
Being a budak isn't just about romance. It’s about social survival. The school or campus environment is a micro-economy of status. You can’t exist without your group
You don't have to wait three days to text back. That is childish. However, if someone consistently takes 12 hours to reply while being online, match their energy. Do not over-invest in someone who sees you as an option. You can’t exist without your group