Romantic storylines are a dominant force in global media, from literature and film to digital series and video games. This paper examines the bidirectional relationship between on-screen romantic narratives and real-world relationship expectations, behaviors, and satisfaction. Drawing on social cognitive theory, narrative transportation, and attachment theory, we analyze how tropes such as “love at first sight,” “enemies to lovers,” and “the grand gesture” influence audience beliefs about intimacy, conflict resolution, and commitment. Furthermore, we explore how evolving cultural attitudes toward gender, sexuality, and technology are reshaping romantic storytelling. The paper concludes that while romantic storylines can provide emotional templates and catharsis, they often prioritize drama over realistic relationship maintenance, contributing to what psychologists call “romantic perfectionism.” Recommendations for media literacy and more diverse narrative models are provided.

Keywords: romantic storylines, narrative psychology, relationship scripts, media effects, attachment styles, romantic tropes

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